This Tuesday the lecture was held in SingSing, 3 lecturers delivered their idea about how to make positive changes in personal life and entrepreneurship.
One of the richest and most influential investors in Asia ----Li Ka-shing has a famous saying: thinking makes action, action makes habit, habit makes personality, personality makes destiny. I totally agree this, and for me the keystone of the bridge from idea to success is definitely HABIT.
That's why I am touched by the diagram made by Fredrik Karlsson , he divides the sequence of cultivating an habit into 5 steps: Pre-contemplation, Contemplation, Preparation, Action and Maintenance. It's quite convincing, to make it happen you have to be cautious in every step, and above all, time management is the key issue. He didn't mention much about this, but I want to think of it more, since it's crucial and tricky, and most of people fail because of it.
Time Management
First, we have to make a long term schedule for this pacific habit. When should I start? How to subdivide the whole task into small workable missions for different period? How long should each period be? If I fail to achieve before deadline, then what?
Lots of people are frustrated when they can't see immediate success, it's not easy to insist especially when you failed in the process. Anyhow, persistence is the only way to achievement. But to avoid mistake, we better learn from others' experiences. Communication is inspiring and encouraging.
Second, we have to make this habit cope with other tasks. E.g. if you want to go to gym to keep fit, when should you go? How often per week? Is it better to work out immediate after work or 1 hours after dinner? The present United States Secretary of State---Condoleezza Rice goes to gym every morning at 4 am and works out half hour, is this a good example for you? It seems she is more energic than many people:). It's quite hard to fine the most effective way since there are always so many tasks going simultaneously. Maybe a good way to decide time is :just try to avoid as many negative effects as possible! At least you shouldn't go to gym immediately after meal.
In both cases, communication and contact with other person is very important, I will talk about this next time.
One of the richest and most influential investors in Asia ----Li Ka-shing has a famous saying: thinking makes action, action makes habit, habit makes personality, personality makes destiny. I totally agree this, and for me the keystone of the bridge from idea to success is definitely HABIT.
That's why I am touched by the diagram made by Fredrik Karlsson , he divides the sequence of cultivating an habit into 5 steps: Pre-contemplation, Contemplation, Preparation, Action and Maintenance. It's quite convincing, to make it happen you have to be cautious in every step, and above all, time management is the key issue. He didn't mention much about this, but I want to think of it more, since it's crucial and tricky, and most of people fail because of it.
Time Management
First, we have to make a long term schedule for this pacific habit. When should I start? How to subdivide the whole task into small workable missions for different period? How long should each period be? If I fail to achieve before deadline, then what?
Lots of people are frustrated when they can't see immediate success, it's not easy to insist especially when you failed in the process. Anyhow, persistence is the only way to achievement. But to avoid mistake, we better learn from others' experiences. Communication is inspiring and encouraging.
Second, we have to make this habit cope with other tasks. E.g. if you want to go to gym to keep fit, when should you go? How often per week? Is it better to work out immediate after work or 1 hours after dinner? The present United States Secretary of State---Condoleezza Rice goes to gym every morning at 4 am and works out half hour, is this a good example for you? It seems she is more energic than many people:). It's quite hard to fine the most effective way since there are always so many tasks going simultaneously. Maybe a good way to decide time is :just try to avoid as many negative effects as possible! At least you shouldn't go to gym immediately after meal.
In both cases, communication and contact with other person is very important, I will talk about this next time.
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